What I Learned from … 2009

December 22, 2009 by Lillie 

2009Middle Zone Musings’ groupwrite project for this month is What I Learned from … 2009. Robert Hruzek has challenged us to compile a list of our favorite, best, most popular, whatever we choose posts for each month of 2009.

Choices like this are always hard for me for a couple of reasons:

  • How do you choose your favorite child? Since every post comes from my heart, choosing my favorite post is about the same as choosing my favorite child.
  • I write for my own enjoyment and don’t strive for profundity or eloquence—not that I would achieve those if I did strive for them. :-) So it’s a little presumptuous for me to say any of posts are “best.”

In spite of the difficulties, however, I’ve come up with a list of posts by month.

  • January: A Thirty-Six Year Tragedy—I chose this post lamenting the tragedy of 36 years of Roe v. Wade because I am passionate about saving the lives of unborn babies, and the thought of the 50 million babies denied the right to life sickens me.
  • February: What I Learned from Love—I have been so blessed with the love of my family, the love of my husband, and above all the love of God that I was delighted to share my great loves.
  • March: Healing Miracles—It took a series of three posts beginning with this one to describe the many healing miracles I’ve experienced in my life. What a blessing to experience these miracles and what a blessing to share them to the glory of God.
  • April: Adversity? What Adversity?—This post was another opportunity to share the blessings I have experienced in life. April posts included five of six parts of a series on memoir writing, which I hope was helpful to readers. However, sharing God’s blessings is more important to me.
  • May: Lessons from Community—The thing that surprised me most about blogging was the creation of community, and this post tells what that means to me.
  • June: Creating Fictional Characters—This post was the first in an eight-part series based on a course I taught. The series was popular among readers and generated a lot of comments, and a couple of the posts rank high in Google for the phrase “creating fictional characters.”
  • July: What I Learned from a Blooper—I enjoyed recalling a silly blooper I made that gave me the chance to share a little about physical therapy for strokes.
  • August: Mission Impossible: Book Trailer for Dream or DestinyJoanna Young’s challenge to post something we’ve never done before motivated me to try creating a video, which I’d wanted to do for a long time. Although I was satisfied with what I did for a beginning, I have yet to go back and improve the video enough to post it anywhere else.
  • September: What I Learned from Laughter—This post links to a previous entry, which I enjoyed because I don’t often write humor.
  • October: Domestic Violence and You—The last in a seven-part series, this post shared ways all of us can help with the problem of domestic violence, a cause close to my heart.
  • November: Advent—We get so busy during the Christmas season that it’s easy to let other activities take priority over the reason for the season. Advent helps us prepare for the coming of the Lord.
  • December: Christmas Gift-Giving—Though it’s important to focus on Jesus as the reason for the season, giving gifts at Christmas is a long and cherished tradition. The best gifts are those that come from the heart.

I’ve had some wonderful authors visit my blog this past year. Each of them deserves recognition; I couldn’t choose any one of them because I couldn’t choose all of them. Some posts weren’t considered because they didn’t contain anything original from me. The freelance rates survey took a huge amount of time and energy to compile. Recognition of special days—such as World Alzheimer’s Day, I Love to Write Day, and Religious Freedom Day—and special organizations and programs—such as Operaton EBook Drop: Free Books for Deployed Soldiers and Free E-Books for Read an E-Book Week—generated many comments. However, I limited my choices to posts that reflected my opinions, beliefs, and experiences.

Only two posts during the year generated 100 or more comments: World Alzheimer’s Day (102 comments) and Comments, Spam, and Comment Spam (100 comments).

The most-visited post this year continued to be a post from 2007: How Much Will It Cost? Average Freelance Editing Rates. The most-visited post written this year was Creating Fictional Characters—Part 1: Characters Are Story People. There were several other posts from 2007 and 2008 more popular than any 2009 posts.

Rather than believing that the quality of my posts is deteriorating, I choose to believe that good posts have staying power. That’s what I learned from 2009.

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Comment by Robert Hruzek
2009-12-22 07:22:34

Thanks a herd for joining us once again, Lillie; your roundup certainly includes some of my favorites!

Hey, a big ol’ tip o’ the hat to ya!
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Comment by Lillie
2009-12-22 23:13:03

Robert,
Thanks. Interesting how many of my favorites were WILF entries.

 
 
Comment by James from corporate training
2009-12-22 07:45:24

I think that we all learned something this year. If we are still able to learn it means that we are still alive. There is nothing worse than becoming a zombie that watches Oprah all day long and not thinking about anything else but how to full the stomach.

Comment by Lillie
2009-12-22 23:13:25

James,

You’re right. We need to be constantly learning and growing.

 
 
Comment by Steve from Lift Chairs
2009-12-22 09:23:10

I am always amazed at how quickly the new year seems to sneak up on you. I thought the blooper post was pretty funny, although certainly easy to do. Thankfully your mother was there for you :)
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Comment by Lillie
2009-12-22 23:14:49

Steve,

Yes, the blooper was an easy one to make because not many of us have any experience with “gait belts.” It shot my pride in having a good vocabulary, though. :-)

 
 
Comment by Joanna Young
2009-12-22 15:32:33

Lillie, what a great round up of highlights, thanks for sharing them.

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!

Comment by Lillie
2009-12-22 23:15:13

Thank you, Joanna. My next project is to narrow down these favorites to a single one for your group writing project.

Merry Christmas!

 
 
Comment by Emma from Cheap Barcodes for the UK
2009-12-23 02:28:31

Thanks for this roundup of your favourite posts from this year. Domestic Violence is a cause very close to my heart to. I think it is close to the hearts of everyone affected by it, and to the hearts of the friends/relatives of victims of it.

I’ll check out the creating fictional characters posts because that’s something I am very interested in, how to create realistic, flawed and very human characters that readers can emotionally connect to.

Comment by Lillie
2009-12-23 03:23:59

Emma,

I’m glad you enjoyed the post. Creating Fictional Characters is a series of posts and is pretty extensive. It’s based on a course I taught a while back.

 
 
Comment by Spot from camera reviews
2009-12-23 16:32:16

I think it’s always a great idea to look back at the end of the year and take stock of what one’s learned and where one is heading in this crazy world. I particularly like how you did your review month-by-month.

Merry Christmas and happy holidays.
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Comment by Lillie
2009-12-23 18:59:04

Spot,

The month-by-month review wasn’t an original idea. That’s the way Robert Hruzek at Middle Zone Musings organized the group writing project. It is effective.

 
 
Comment by Sujoy
2009-12-24 03:52:10

Wonderful Lillie! I really appreciate your posting. I’m first time visiting your blog and seems you did an excellent review while posting it. The way you organized it sounds really good!

Merry Christmas!
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Comment by Lillie
2009-12-24 05:47:12

Sujoy,

I’m glad you found my blog and look forward to having you visit and comment in the future.

 
 
Comment by Terry from freight forwarders
2009-12-27 04:36:16

I see you mentioned comment spam and that’s a real problem these days. People want to send out thousands of automated snippets of rubbish and then expect us to publish them on our blogs! It amazes me they actually believe its a given thing! Oh well, if my poor snowed under email inbox is anything to go by, this is a problem that isn’t going to go away anytime soon. Thanks for the post!

Comment by Lillie
2009-12-27 17:46:39

Terry,

You’re right that this problem won’t go away … but we just have to keep fighting it.

 
 
Comment by Martin from Swarovski Strasssteine
2009-12-28 10:43:07

Great post Lillie. I always learn a lot from your posts and really appreciate it! I wish you a Happy New Year. Regards, Martin

Comment by Lillie
2009-12-28 20:50:44

Thank you, Martin. I wish you and your family a blessed year in 2010.

 
 
Comment by Vincenti Winchester Subscribed to comments via email
2009-12-29 13:30:55

Yes, I agree with you regarding the birth of an essay.

Obviously if one is writing from the heart with true intent, the resulting work will represent who and what he or she is.

In reading your blog, I am always inspired to know that there are people still living in the US who bear their souls in a wholesome way.

Congratulations for your tenderness, and intelligence.

And, a Happy and Prosperous New Year
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Comment by Lillie
2009-12-29 18:04:52

Vincente,

Thank you for your kind words, and wishes for a wonderful coming year for you.

 
 
2009-12-31 19:26:00

Sure is a lot of gratitude in this list lillie – I too am ever grateful for my blog and for the opportunity it provides for all types of exploration!!

Comment by Lillie
2010-01-01 14:34:53

Karen,

Thank you. I have much to be grateful for.

 
 
Comment by Martha
2010-01-02 03:01:01

Thanks for compiling this great list, Lillie. I have plenty of reading to do today, lol. Two of the articles are my favs: the April and December articles. :)

Comment by Lillie
2010-01-02 04:17:31

Martha,

I’m glad you like two of my favorite posts and hope you enjoy reading all the articles.

 
 
Comment by Steve from Playing Rock Guitar Lessons
2010-01-09 11:25:49

Loved the post, looks like you had a busy and interesting year. A few heavy and underdiscussed topics in there as well.
All my best wishes in 2010.

Thanks,
Steve.
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Comment by Lillie
2010-01-09 18:12:53

Thanks, Steve. It was an interesting year, and I expect the same in 2010.

 
 
Comment by faisal from Women Workout Routine
2010-01-23 00:16:18

I learned a lot in 2009. This is really great post. Thanks for sharing it. Keep updating please.

Comment by Lillie
2010-01-23 02:19:46

faisal,

It would be interesting some of what you learned in 2009 ….

 
 

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