Birthdays and Thanks

January 12, 2009 by Lillie 

Last week, we enjoyed a special family celebration. My husband Jack turned 76 years old. My sister-in-law Cindy had a birthday the same day, but she was less than half Jack’s age. Cindy and her husband David (Jack’s brother) live in China so it was a treat to have them here for a joint birthday party. The photos are courtesy of David and Cindy.

In addition to the birthday folks and their spouses, the partygoers included:

  • Jack’s sister Carol and her husband Sam
  • My sister Nancy and her friend Borrego
  • David’s daughter Marie
  • David’s son Scott, his wife Rachel, and their daughters Megan and Zoe

A couple of days after the party, I fell, and Jack has been taking care of me since then. I’m getting around a little on my own now, but for the first few days, he had to wait on me hand and foot.

I recall when we were undergoing premarital counseling nearly 42 years ago. The priest advised me several times to seriously consider that, since Jack is almost 14 years older than I am, I would probably spend years of my life taking care of an old man. In fact, he’s taken care of me far more than I’ve taken care of him. He cared for me for months after the stroke as well as for shorter periods following the dog bite, several surgeries, and a couple of other injuries. I am truly blessed!

Comments

16 Responses to “Birthdays and Thanks”

  1. wilson says:

    Happy B’day to Your husband, Jack and your sister-in-law, Cindy.

    Honestly, Lillie. Your husband appearance didn’t look like a 76 years old man, but rather than 50+…(Same with you as well!)

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  2. Andrew says:

    Those are very lovely photos Lillie.

    It looks as though you have a very nice family, and I hope that Jack and Cindy had a wonderful day.

    You have been married for forty two years – wow, that’s some achievement!

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    • Lillie says:

      Thank you, Andrew.

      Yes, I am blessed to have a wonderful family.

      Jack, Cindy, and all of us had a marvelous day.

      Nearly 42 years is a long time for a marriage to last these days, but it doesn’t seem like it’s been that long.

  3. Janet says:

    Happy birthday to Jack! And Cindy.

    It looks like ya’ll had a lovely celebration.

  4. web design says:

    Happy Birthday! You guys look like you had a great time and you have a very nice family.

    • Lillie says:

      web (if you wrote YourName@Kaywords, Keyword Luv will show your name so I could address you as a person and you still get your keyword link),

      I’ll pass on your good wishes to Jack and Cindy. It was a fun party, and I am blessed with a wonderful family.

  5. Chris says:

    It was great looking at your photos. It’s indeed rare to be together with relatives who come from other part of the globe. Looked like you had a wonderful reunion.

  6. I think its great to listen to your experiences on a birthday function. I too had a similar experiences that I love to enjoy always.

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    • Lillie says:

      Darlenvennita,

      I’m glad you enjoyed my birthday party report and that you have good memories of your own to enjoy.

  7. [...] with only mild pain and a little bruising. However, the pain continued to worsen. By the day after Jack’s birthday party, it was getting hard for me to get around. The next day, my right knee gave way, and I fell flat on [...]

  8. Cornelia says:

    It’s great if you have the same birthday with the people you love!

    • Lillie says:

      Cornelia,

      And especially to get to celebrate the day together. Cindy lives in China, so it was a blessing she and David were here on her birthday.

  9. [...] photo of Cindy and Jack is from their last birthday party.  David and Cindy live in China so we don’t always get to celebrate [...]

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