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  • Filed Under (Lillie's Musings) by Lillie on 01-04-2008

    I’m not sure whether to thank or blame Lisa Gates at Design Your Writing Life for A Gratitude “MeMe” for “YouYou.”

    On one hand, this post has taken more time and effort to compile than any other single post I’ve ever written. Lisa said it would be a challenge to do it manually, but I didn’t realize what a challenge until I spent hours at a time for several days copying and pasting from WordPress into a spreadsheet to compile the list. In fact, I intended to post this before the end of the year, but it’s taken this long to put the post together.

    On the other hand, what a treat is has been to review a year’s worth of comments, remember great conversations, and think of commenters who have become good friends.

    Thanks lily

    In the past year, 324 commenters have left more than a thousand comments on 230 posts. I have replied to every one, bringing the total number of comments to more than 2000. In addition to replying, I always visit the blog of every commenter who includes a link and end up subscribing to many of the blogs I visit.

    More than the numbers impressed me as I went back through every comment in the last year. Some were short comments agreeing with something I said. Others were longer discourses that advanced the conversation by answering a question, providing more information, or sharing new insights. A few were lengthy explanations of why I was wrong, but all were respectful and thoughtful. I am awed and humbled by the amazing conversations we’ve had. Thank you to each commenter for your contributions to this blog in 2007. I look forward to your continued participation in the coming year.

    About a third of the commenters left multiple comments. While I appreciate each comment, there are a few individuals who have to be singled out for being so much a part of this blog.

    Top Contributors (50+ comments):
    Mihaela (Mig) Lica, Pamil Visions’ E-Writings (60 comments)
    Laura, Writing Thoughts (57 comments)
    Yvonne Russell, Grow Your Writing Business (54 comments)
    Jeanne Dininni, Writer’s Notes (51 comments)

    Major Contributors (20 to 40 comments):
    Matt Keegan, The Article Writer
    Helen Ginger, Straight from Hel
    Joanna Young, Confident Writing

    Outstanding Contributors (10 to 20 comments):
    Jack J Ammann Jr aka Mr. Lillie, Jack Ammann
    Robert Hruzek, Middle Zone Musings
    Lisa Vella, Getting it Write for You
    Michi, Content Done Better
    Thomma Lyn, Tennessee Text Wrestling
    Michele Tune, Writing the Cyber Highway
    Misti Sandefur, Life of a Writer
    Mike Olbinski, A Mike Life
    Hummie, Hummie’s World

    Significant Contributors (2 to 10 comments):
    Merry Jelinek, Mom and More
    Karen Putz, A Deaf Mom Shares Her World
    Writing Nag
    Edith Brown, Jeteak Press Writer Blog
    Sam Chan, Acquire Wisdom and Live with Passion
    Stephen Hopson, Adversity University
    Alcohol Rehabilitation, Drug Rehab Center
    Alicia, Writing Spark
    Theda K., Crayon Writer
    Angela Williams Duea, Pearl Writing
    Bryan, One Man’s Goal
    David, Blog Raters
    Mary Emma Allen, Home Biz Notes
    Brad Shorr, Word Sell, Inc.
    Cade, Write to Right
    Jasia, Creative Gene
    Jeane Michelle Culp, Binding Ink
    Liz Strauss, Successful Blog
    Lori Widmer, Words on the Page
    wordvixen, Quest to Write
    A Mom and More
    Angela/The Gack Ink Girls, Gack Ink
    Char, Essential Keystrokes
    chrisblogging.com, ChrisBlogging
    Code4Gold
    Denise, Freelancing Journey
    doris chua, Home Office Women
    Fr. Jerry Sherbourne, Fr. Jerry’s Jottings
    Georganna Hancock, A Writer’s Edge
    Jenny, Up the Hill Gang
    Julia Temlyn, Mrs. Write Right, Word Therapist (aka writer-editor)
    Jyn Smith
    Lara Kulpa, Anubis Marketing
    Lisa, Work at Home Mom Revolution
    Mike DeWitt, Spooky Action
    Mike Seth, Hammer & Duct Tape
    Pfunk, Pfunk’s Foolsophy
    Phil Davis, How to Publish a Book
    Ponn Sabra, Empower Women Now
    raz godelnik, Eco-Libris
    Sharon Hurley Hall, Get Paid to Write Online
    Sheila, Go Visit Hawaii
    website copywriter, Webmaster Labor
    Amy Derby, Write from Home
    AnitoKid, The AnitoKid on Billiards|Philippine Sports
    Beth G. Sanders, bgsblog
    Breezie, Shooting the Breeze with Breezie
    Carpentry Jobs
    Chamonix, Chalet 1802
    cooliojones, My New Hustle
    CyberCelt, Endangered Spaces
    Dave RH, The Ancient Standard
    David, Cooking, Recipes, and Kitchen Tools
    David Airey
    Deb, Punctuality Rules
    Dorothy Thompson, Pump up Your Online Book Promotion
    Ed, Dingmo
    Evelyn, Productive Pen
    GnomeyNewt, Blue Jar
    Heather, Desperately Seeking Sanity
    Jason A. Clark, Inner 88
    Jerseygirl89, Dirty Little Secret
    Jobs in Israel, Job Mob
    Kate Baggott, Babylune
    Linden man, Chinoy Ray
    Liz, My year of getting published
    Louiss, Blogging Secret
    Manchild, When Least Expected
    Mark, Mark (Unemployed)
    MDB, Million Dollar Blog
    Newspaper Printers, Archant Print
    Paula Mooney, Paula Neal Mooney
    Priscilla Palmer, Priscilla Palmer.com
    Rabat Travel, Morocco Emotions
    rob, robinsongo
    Robyn, Brain Based Biz
    Siddhaswarupananda Paramahamsa das, Jagad Guru Siddhaswarupananda Paramahamsa
    Sincerity
    Solomon
    Sue, I Breathe; Therefore I Write
    surjit, Gurushabad
    Sylvia C., Sylvia’s Insight
    Tammi, Drawing on Words
    Thisbe, Discount Spies
    Timothy Lim, Singapore Chiropractic
    Vic, bu.bulicio.us
    Vikk, Down the Writer’s Path
    Yang Yang, Stumble Upon Yang

    Important Contributors (1 comment):
    @Stephen, Productivity in Context
    Ace, IM Panama
    Adam_Y, Flow Field Unity
    Alex, Personal Finance Views in the UK
    Alex, Science of Identity
    Alice
    Alina Popescu, Words of a Broken Mirror
    Amana Mission Publishing Ink, Amana Mission Publishing Ink
    Andrew, F&C Directory
    Angela, Serien-IM Blog
    Annie, If Only I Could Learn ‘How to Write,’ Right!
    Annie, Super Fast Reader
    Anupreet
    AOV Philippines Outsourcing Service
    At Home Mom
    Aureliusz Kalliokoski, Iscribbler
    Bape, Bapestas.net
    The Barrow-Wight, Raven’s Barrow
    Barry Cox - Scottsdale Homes, Relocate to AZ Homes
    bellevelma, Running with Books
    Benjamin, Benjamin On WOWNDADI
    Bob, Every, Every Minute
    Brenda G. Wooley, One Kentucky Writer
    Cameron, The Tech Scoop
    Car Titans, CarTitans.com
    Carol Webb
    Cass, Cass Knits
    Catherine, the Redhead, A Week in the Life of a Redhead
    Cathy Marley
    Charles Sheehan-Miles
    Cheap HDTV
    Cherie Lee
    Children oil portraits, Guaranteed Portraits
    Chris, Leadership in Action
    Chris Moore
    Church of Integrity
    Cindy, Kaleidoscope
    Clock Man
    constructicle boy
    Court, Court’s Internet Marketing School
    cm
    Comfy - Educational toys, Comfyland
    Cricket Videos
    Cyberpartygal, She Rambles On
    Dan, Rent Bits
    Dana, The Writer’s Blog by Dana Pri nce
    Darlene, Tough Questions Great Answers
    Dave
    Dave, Go Backpacking
    David, OnTheWebEd
    David Bowles, Writing the Westward Sagas
    davis, In the Arms of God
    dcr, dcr blogs
    Deborah Gamble, Uncommon Notions
    Denise, Freelance Writing
    Denise, Tired of Working? Take a Break
    Diana Brandmeyer, Next in Dianaland
    Diogenes, Fine Art of Blogging
    Dirk, Fun Paradise City
    djahna, Sure 2 Profit
    Jen/domestika, Domestik Goddess
    Don, Affiliate Watcher
    DRM remover
    Dubai, Update Dubai
    Dylan, Link It For Me
    Emma, It’s Write Now
    Environmental News Service, Environmental Graffiti
    Eve, WordPress Reworked
    Every Square Inch
    everysquareinch.blogspot.com
    Everything Anything and Nothing
    Fashion Directory
    Felix Ker
    Forrest Croce
    Franck Silvestre, Make Money with Affiliate Programs
    Free Online Coupons
    Funny Picture Woman
    Gaming servers
    Glenda Watson Hyatt, Do It Myself Blog
    green tea benefits, Tea Scoop
    Hank, hoodiaweightloss
    Harmony, Writer in the Making
    headshot photographer los angles
    Heather, A Creative Journal
    Holly, Woman Tribune
    Hoto
    Howard, Mead on Manhattan
    isabella mori, Change Therapy
    Ivan, Zona Cerebral
    J, Workout Review
    Jackie, Practical Wisdom
    Jacky, Vermont 251 Club
    James, Digital Key
    Jan, Circular Communication
    Janie
    Jason , Stock Market Investors
    JasonJ, Ask Jason
    Jay, Between Looking and Seeing
    JC, rnb Dirt
    Jeff, Jeff Hendricks on Design
    Jenn Mattern, All Freelance Writing
    Jennifer, Tree Hugging Family
    Jeremy Hobbs, Consumer’s Corner
    John, Business Opportunities and Ideas
    John Kremer, BookMarket.com
    John Wilberforce, Hit Flip
    John Wolf, Author
    Joint Venture Partner
    JoLynn Braley, The Fit Shack
    Jos, NoDirectOn
    Jose Tudor, Tried It Myself
    Joyce Bowling, Kentucky the Mountains I Call Home
    June
    kalpesh, Implanting Ideas
    Kamal, Why Must Visit Malaysia
    Karen Alaniz, Write Now
    Kate, Electric Venom
    Kay Ross
    KCLau, KC Lau’s Money Tips
    Kersson
    Kevin, Fuel My Blog
    Kristie, Christianity.com
    Kwiz, Women Walking in Wisdom’s Footsteps
    ladysown
    Lakshmi Mareddy, Chilligava
    Las Vegas Personal Injury Lawyer
    Layouts, My Space Now
    Lazy Boy
    legbamel, One Step Forward
    Linda Haden
    Linda Cano
    Linda R. Moore, Raven’s Roads
    Lisa Gates, Design Your Writing Life
    Lisa Saper-Bloom
    Liza, Top Tutorials
    Lori Rosmus
    Lowell Crabb, Acceleration of Money
    Lucid, Spiritual Suggestions
    Malignition
    Malok, Sold by Jennifer
    Manila Mom
    Martha Hilliard
    Mary Evelyn Lewis, Virtual Wordsmith
    matt
    Matt, Cheap Air Soft Guns
    Matt Jones, Random Acts of Verbiage
    Matthew, Blog about Your Blog
    Matthew Cornell, Matthew’s Idea Blog
    Max, UK Cottage Rental
    Melanie, Thrifty and Creative
    Michael, Mobile Phone Geek
    Michael Werner, Dream Jobs Dialog
    Michelle Gartner, Smart Not Cheap
    Miller Caldwell
    Mirko, Designer Daily
    Mister EDgAr
    Moultrie Creek
    Moving Master
    moxy, Blogocola
    Mr Pasadena Lasik Surgery
    Nico Lorenz T. Panlican, Life Essentials
    Okinawa, HDR Japan
    On Web Check
    Ouch!
    Patricia
    Patti McQuillen, Gaslight Writers
    pelf, pelf-ism is contagious
    perros, Sobre Perros
    Peter, Hit Meister
    Peter, tarife’s xanga site
    PeterK, High Salary Careers
    Pips, Pips Net Future Trends
    PODs Print staff, 3-D Printers and Printing Technology
    Randa Clay
    Randy, The Garden of the King
    Renae, Morning Coffee
    Rick Cockrum, Shards of Consciousness
    Rinsem
    Robb, I Need One of Those
    Robin Bayne
    Robin Yap, Yap 3.0
    Ron, Into the Bit
    ru4real, Are You for Real?
    sami m, Birch Bolete
    Sarakastic, Fibromyalgia Experiment
    satellite tv
    Sauna
    Scott, The Directory Dude
    SEO Ninji, Search Engine Optimization
    Simon, Yeepage
    Sophisticated Writer, Confessions of a Sophisticated Writer
    Sports Videos, Dekhona
    Steve, 123 Look2Me
    Steve Hayes, Notes from Underground
    Steven Snell, Vandelay Design
    subconscious mind, Erupting Mind
    Summer, Summer’s Nook
    Sunset Pearl
    Susan Hetrick, Advice from the Blender
    Susan J, The Urban Muse
    Suzanne Wells, Moms in Business
    svend
    SYH, Women Mumbles
    Takeoff Zone
    therapydoc, Everyone Needs Therapy
    Travelinoma
    Troy Worman, Process Geek
    Two Write Hands
    UtahCateringMan, Culinary Crafts
    Vahsek, Jack of Some [sic} Trades, Master of Stupidity
    Virginia, Katalusis
    Virtual Impax
    wagi
    Web Design Business, FocusMinded.com
    web dev, Make a Website
    Wedding Cake Lady
    Wholesale Cameras, Safety Tech Spy
    Wii Fit
    WildwoodNJ
    Yuwanda, How to Start a Successful Freelance Writing Career
    Xavier, TechNov Blog

    Disclaimer and advance apology: Although I tried to be accurate, I'm sure there are mistakes in the list. If I left you off or made an error in your listing, please accept my advance apology and post a correction in a comment below.

    Note that if whatever was listed as the commenter's name was the same as the name of the blog, I listed and linked to the blog without repeating the name.

    If there is no link for a listing, 1) the commenter doesn't have a blog; 2) the link was removed from the comment because I found the site offensive (there are only a couple of those); or 3) the link led to a parked domain. I did not check each link, but I clicked on ones that I didn't recognize the site name from the URL. If the link led to a parked domain, I removed the link as the site no longer exists. If I knew of a URL change since the comment was left, I linked to the current blog.

    I also want to thank those who read and reviewed the manuscript of my forthcoming novel, Dream or Destiny. Others offered to read; however, either I already had enough volunteers or they were unable to finish because of schedule conflicts. I appreciate those offers as well.

    Special thanks to the following who took the time to read and review the manuscript. Your comments, edits, and insights will make the book stronger, and for that I am grateful.
    Diana Lesire Brandmeyer, Next in Dianaland
    Helen Ginger, Straight from Hel
    Mihaela (Mig) Lica, Pamil Visions' E-Writings
    Misti Sandefur, Life of a Writer
    Tammi Reynolds, Drawing on Words

    Thank you all for a fabulous 2007! I'm looking forward to an even better 2008.

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    Comment by Brad Shorr
    2008-01-04 21:49:59

    Hi Lillie, thanks for your generous thank you to me and all your contributors. Best of luck with your novel!

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-04 21:53:59

    Thank YOU, Brad. I really appreciate the contributions.

    I’ll announce when the novel is finally available. It’s been delayed because of health issues of my publisher, but hopefully, it will get back on track soon.

     
     
    Comment by Lisa Gates
    2008-01-04 22:22:32

    Oh, I’m so embarrassed I had but ONE comment. Really shameful for how much I think of you. And read you on my reader. Sounds like a commitment coming on, doesn’t it???

    Lillie, you have completely outdone this MeMe YouYou, and I bow to you for making it so specific–something I really value.

    My hat is off, my love. And your gesture is so well appreciated.

    Lisa

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-04 22:41:28

    Lisa,
    Your one comment is greatly appreciated as are your lovely compliments.

    Compiling this list made me more conscious of the importance of comments. I commented today for the first time on a blog I read all the time and love, so I totally understand that the failure to comment doesn’t mean lack of interest.

    Thank you for coming up with the MeMe YouYou. I’m glad to thank my commenters, and I really enjoyed re-experiencing a year’s worth of comments.

     
     
    Comment by Michelle Gartner Subscribed to comments via email
    2008-01-04 22:32:24

    Hi Lillie thanks for including me, I took some time off from blogging to have my last child (don’t feel sorry for me for stopping- 5 is enough). I am so glad to be back to blogging on all my blogs and reading so many great blogs and posts like yours. I can only imagine how much time it took you to link to all these blogs. Have a a Happy New Year and thanks for the link.

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-04 22:42:47

    Congratulations on your fifth child, Michelle! Glad to have you back blogging and commenting.

     
     
    Comment by Matthew
    2008-01-04 22:36:26

    well thanks for the mention :)

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-04 22:44:14

    You’re welcome, Matthew. I subscribe to and enjoy your blog, and it’s quite likely I discovered it from your comment though I don’t recall for sure.

     
     
    Comment by Forrest
    2008-01-04 22:48:17

    What an amazing labor of love! I have a fraction the number of comments you have, and can’t even imagine what an undertaking this must be … no wonder it took longer than you planned.

    You have an amazingly strong affection for your readers. I would thank you, but I’m too much in awe.

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-04 22:52:00

    Thank you for the kind words, Forrest. When I started blogging, I thought I was going to be sharing what I’ve learned. I’ve discovered that I learn more from my readers/commenters than they do from me, and I’ve made so many wonderful friends that I never could have imagined.

     
     
    2008-01-05 00:55:09

    What an amazing post, Lillie! I commend you for doing this. I can’t imagine how much effort it took because I know the recent creative link love post I did was quite a lot of work and it is hard to make sure you’ve included everyone and linking with the correct url takes even longer.

    I have really enjoyed your blog since I found it. I forget how I found you, but I’m so glad I did! Off the top of my head, you’ve made me think about writing press releases, the need to pray for peace, and so much more! I’ve learned a lot here and can’t wait to learn more this year.

    Your comments are always so kind and meaningful and in my opinion, much appreciated.

    Thank you for the link love and for providing great content, advice, tips, information, and friendliness at this blog.

    Smiles,
    Michele

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:18:27

    Michele,

    I’m glad you found me, too! Your beautiful compliments have put a big smile on my face.

     
     
    Comment by Merry Jelinek
    2008-01-05 01:19:19

    Wow, this must’ve taken you an eternity to compile. Thank you for including me in your listing, I’m feeling slightly awful for losing track of your blog over the months.

    Best of luck in the coming year and thank you again for all of your wonderful entries and dedication to your readers!!!

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:20:34

    Merry,

    It was a lot of work but well worth it. One of the benefits was rediscovering a few blogs that I had lost track of somewhere along the line. So I completely understand that you lost track of my blog for awhile and am delighted that you’re back.

     
     
    Comment by Mike Olbinski
    2008-01-05 01:32:21

    Dang Lillie…that was a huge job to do all that, but thank you for doing it! Nice to be a part of this site and I’m glad I got to contribute a bit to it.

    Keep it up, can’t wait to read the novel.

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:21:30

    I’m glad you’re a contributing part of this site, too, Mike.

     
     
    Comment by Rick Cockrum
    2008-01-05 02:02:12

    Wonderful, Lillie. Participating in this meme is like taking out our memories and cherishing one by one. Thank you.

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:39:19

    What a beautiful and perfect description of this experience, Rick!

     
     
    Comment by Joanna Young
    2008-01-05 06:05:38

    Lillie, what a wonderful representation of the community you’ve built up here. Thanks for the time and effort that went into creating it (and the link love, of course)

    Joanna

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:23:39

    Thanks, Joanna. I’m so blessed and happy to have such a wonderful community here.

     
     
    Comment by Jeanne Dininni Subscribed to comments via email
    2008-01-05 06:12:24

    Wow, Lillie, what a list! You certainly deserve every comment you’ve received! So glad to see that I’ve left that many comments; because so often, when life has been especially hectic, I’ve felt a bit neglectful.

    Thanks so much for recognizing your commenters in such a special and meaningful way! Here’s hoping that 2008 will bring even more comments–and more readers–your way!

    Many blessings in the New Year!
    Jeanne

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:27:08

    Thank you, Jeanne. Meaningful comments take time and effort, and sometimes when we’re under pressure with other commitments, we can’t do as much as we’d like. But you’ve certainly participated significantly here. As I said in the post, the quality and thoughtfulness of the comments impressed me even more than the numbers of comments.

     
     
    Comment by Sharon Hurley Hall
    2008-01-05 06:34:19

    This must have taken you ages, Lillie (I know my monthly list does). Thanks so much for including me and for the quality you provide on your blog. I obviously don’t comment as much as I read.
    Here’s to a wonderful 2008 for all of us.

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:31:12

    Sharon,

    I appreciate your monthly list as well as all your excellent posts. I’m glad that you read this blog regularly. Your comments are always insightful, which is far more important then the number of times you comment.

     
     
    Comment by IsMyLocationOnline Subscribed to comments via email
    2008-01-05 07:13:09

    Now thats what I call link love. Its funny, you go to someones site and ind something interesting. The web site owner writes an article like this. I have a google alert set for my site. I see you wrote the article. I come to see what you wrote. Thanks for reminding me about your site. I like your comment layout. Very impressive.

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:40:09

    Google alerts are wonderful. I’m glad my post and Google alerts reminded you about my blog.

     
     
    Comment by Robyn
    2008-01-05 07:44:30

    Hi Lillie, I am truly awed by your project. To look at the scope of how you sorted these out is very remarkable because as you say, it took much time and patience.

    Though I have visited on occasion, I hope to visit more often in 2008 to see what you are up to.

    Thanks for the shout!

    Comment by Lillie
    2008-01-05 08:35:05

    Robyn,

    Sorting was easy after I transferred all the data to a spreadsheet. I didn’t start out intending to sort the list this way, but when I saw that several commenters contributed so frequently, I wanted to let them know how much I appreciate it. There are many great blogs to read and comment on, and none of us can keep up with all we’d like as much as we’d like or we’d be doing nothing but reading blogs and commenting. I know how many wonderful blogs compete for my attention, so I appreciate every reader and every comment.