What I Learned from Animals
June 6, 2008 by Lillie
My husband’s Dobermans used to curl up at his feet and put their heads in his lap. The dogs and I weren’t best buddies, but we got along until the morning I was running late for work.
This was back in the days when I showed up at my interior landscape company by the time the doors opened, before I learned to trust my managers.
This particular morning I was already behind schedule when I remembered I had to stop for gas. As I was backing out of the driveway, my husband, who had worked all night on a law enforcement job, pulled in beside me. I asked him to call the office to tell them I would be late. Instead, he said, “You call them, and I’ll get gas for you.”
After he pulled away, I realized the house was locked and my key was in my purse … on the front seat of the car. I went into the backyard to get the spare key out of its hiding place. Dobie, the male dog, who been chained to keep him away from the female in heat, had broken the chain and was engaged in … er … amorous activities … with the female. Without thinking, I walked up to him and gave him a light kick to get his attention.
Fortunately, it took him a few seconds to … disconnect, giving me time to turn around. He came after me, knocked me down, and started biting me on the top of my head. I tried to fight him off, but my resistance led only to bites on my arms.
After what seemed like forever, I thought I would surely die. I prayed, Lord, it looks like I’m about to meet You. I don’t want to be fighting when I enter Heaven. Forgive my sins and take me into Your Kingdom. Then I went limp, at peace and ready to die.
As soon as I went limp, Dobie let me go. He stood and watched while I got up and walked around to the front of the house. When Jack returned, he saw me standing in the carport, covered in blood. He wanted to take me to the hospital emergency room, but I preferred my family physician, who has a minor emergency clinic. We got there before opening, but one of the staff saw us through the door and took me to the emergency room to lie down.
Dr B arrived in a few minutes and gave me pain medication, but he delayed stitching the wounds until he talked to a plastic surgeon. He said my skull was exposed in an area about the size of a quarter, and he thought I need skin grafts. The plastic surgeon told him, “Stitch her up as best you can. We’ll do the grafts later because dog bites almost always lead to infection. Let’s get the infection cleared up before we graft.”
The pain was so intense that I couldn’t sit up. Dr B and his nurses used pillows to raise my head enough for him to reach the wounds. He took more than 50 stitches in my head and several in my arms. As he sewed, he said, “You’re lucky he got your head. If he’d got your carotid artery, you’d be dead now.”
Dr B prescribed antibiotics and told me to see him every day to clean the wounds and check for infection. Although I spent several days in bed with excruciating pain, the wounds healed with no infection and no grafts.
Twenty years later, the only physical evidence of the attack are two scars on my right arm - one in the shape of a five-pointed star and the other in the shape of a crescent moon. But, as usual, the lessons remain.
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Plan ahead - if I’d filled my car with gas on the way home the day before, I wouldn’t have been in the back yard that morning.
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Never come between true love … or true lust … in the animal world.
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An aggressive animal may seem tame, even loving, but it hasn’t lost its aggressive instincts.
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Head wounds bleed A LOT.
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Dog bites cause excruciating pain, the worst I’ve ever experienced.
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It’s difficult to feel comfortable around dogs after being attacked.
But, most importantly, I learned sometimes the best thing to do is to let go. I believe that if I had kept fighting, Dobie would have continued to attack until I was dead. Our natural instinct is to fight back - and many times, we need to fight back. But if you seem to be fighting a losing battle, maybe it’s time to go limp, let your enemy think you’re dead … and live to tell the story.
This post is my entry in What I Learned from Animals at Middle Zone Musings and High Callings Blogs.
Photo: “© Emmanuelle Bonzami | Dreamstime.com”
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Lillie, what a terrifying incident! I can’t believe what an eventful life you have had - or how calmly you’ve been able to write about it here.
Thanks for sharing it though - fantastic story, and great lessons learned.
Joanna
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Eep!! That’s just an awful story, though thankfully a happy ending.
When I was a kid, I’d visit my cousin’s horse farm for weekends during the summer and she would always warn me. “If you’re leaving the house, make sure Tuscon (her German Shepherd) comes out with you.” She explained that when he was alone in the house, he took his guard-dogging VERY seriously and might go into attack mode when I came back inside. As long as he came out of the house and re-entered WITH me, there was never a problem–and he really was a nice dog–but it’s always important to remember that, no matter how trained we think they are, they’re still animals.
(This coming from a woman who has based her entire online knitting persona on the fact that she’s Chappy’s Mom–I absolutely adore my dog and think of him as a member of the family, but, um, he still licks himself in places that aren’t particularly polite…)
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Wow, that sounds like it must have been a very frightening experience. I have been lucky around dogs and with the exception of a few nips have never been really bit.
One time at Christmas though we were all sitting around at my uncle’s house and out of no-where, his hound dog jumped up and attacked my cousin. She ended up needing several operations and still has a few scars.
You should definitely always be wary around animals that are not yours. I can not imagine my dog attacking me or anyone, but I am still very careful when she is around young children.
well, im happy for u to have recovered very well. i think the animals that is your dogs is to be thanked. sometimes animals can be very helpful and sometimes very lucky. i love animals mostly cats and doggies!:)
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Lillie,
You truly never fail to amaze me with the experiences you’ve endured in your life. Most amazing is how wonderfully you have overcome them. I really admire you for that, and your eloquent writing style.
Thank you for sharing another facet of your life!
Have a blessed weekend!
Lisa
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Oh, Lillie — that must have been terribly frightening. I’m glad you came through it all right, and I don’t blame you a bit for being nervous around dogs you don’t know.
Thank you so much for your kind words and well-wishes on my second Blogiversary.
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Wow, Lillie! Great lesson from a truly frightening experience! Glad you’re OK now. Although, considering your eventful life and how you’ve survived just fine, maybe I should ask: how’s the dog? Bwa-ha-ha-ha! Er, sorry. :-\
Nevertheless - thanks for joining us again this month… and so early, too!
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i learned too from my cat a lot. his patience. but also how to show disappoiting-is a real interesting thing, we should all learn more from animals.-
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What happened to you is very shocking but the fact that you recovered well is good. I pray for you to have a good and healthy life and to never experience such accidents again. Cheers!
hello lilie.
i was just reading all the comments. All these people are behind you. You have got all these well wishers. All their blessings are with you..
take care
Thats why I have a chihuahua. Even at it’s most vicious it’s still only a foot long. In all seriousness I was gripped by your incident. I can’t say that I would have the peace of mind to go limp the way that you did. I don’t even think that I’ll remember this if something like this would happen to me, though I pray I would.
CurlyNicole
Lillie, what a horrifying story. The way you tell it it came up on my by surprise. It must take courage for you to think about the incident, let alone write about it, so thank you for giving us this strong dose of reality.
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Yes very very true indeed! The moral of this incident is that stay calm and cool instead of losing your temper and control over your mind and body as this will ensure animals that you trust them to the fullest!!!
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This was a gripping story. I’m so glad you recovered from that attack and that you were able to share the lessons you learned with us.
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WOW - Dog attacks can be sooooo frightening. The stay cool part is a must! I personally like to avoid anything that looks like it is going to attack.
I simply can’t wait to send you to meet another dog…. named MAX - who is an airedale terrier …. large and often misunderstood as a dog who attacks. BUT this dog is in a story that will refresh your heart. Don’t miss this one!
yikes, just came across your post and sorry you had such a bad dog experience. The fact the dog was in heat should have been a red flag to be a bit more cautious. I hope you are okay today. I wonder are you afraid of dogs now?
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Oh my stars….what an amazing story. And what a great lesson it taught you and you are now able to pass along.
Doberman Pinschers can have unstable temperaments. Dogs carry disease, which makes their owners kissing them all the more repugnant and foolish.
If you’ve got a new baby in the house, make sure your dog understands that it is in an inferior position to the child, or there may be tragic consequences.
Wow, well first i would like to say that i’m glad you weren’t permanently damaged from that attack. Also, it makes me think twice about what type of dog breed to select. I am actually thinking about getting a dog next month and i would go insane if something like that happened to a member of my family. Most likely i’m going to get a Border Collie or a Arabian Husky.
Hmm, that’s something to chew one. First time stopping by, glad I came.
such a nice story it is
Your learnings will teach a lot to your readers and thanks for sharing this.
Dog attacks are really dangerous. The law should be reinforced against the owner of those dogs who attack the public.
great story .really liked it. glad i have no dog at home
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